Teacher David's Profile:
Master of Counselling Educational Psychology from the UK
National Level II Psychological Counselor
American NGH hypnotherapist
American NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Training
IPCA International Certified Senior Psychological Counselor
A. Looking around, eyes darting about.
*Research has found that the eyes are a very accurate indicator of personal feelings, and to some extent, we have almost no control over our eyes.
During human evolution, the muscles inside and around the eyes have been adjusted into automatic protective mechanisms. Most of these protective behaviors are unconscious. When we encounter something unpleasant, we look away or blink rapidly to block out the unpleasantness. Does he always have a hesitant look in his eyes when we're face-to-face? Take a look in the mirror for a moment; there's definitely something wrong!
B. Frowning deeply, lips tightly closed
※Research has found that facial expressions such as frowning, tense jaw muscles, and closed lips all indicate worry, anxiety, and irritability.
The lighting is beautiful, the atmosphere is perfect, and you're practically within kissing range, but your partner is hesitant to make a move? Be careful, it could be the condition of your lips that's holding him back! When he starts to furrow his brow and his previously relaxed lips tighten, it means he's trying to hide his disgust and aversion. He might back away, afraid of hurting you; he might continue, afraid of hurting his own lips. You can see all this in his micro-expressions.
C. Head slightly tilted, curious and inquisitive.
*Research has found that when people encounter things that are beyond their comprehension, they subconsciously squint their eyes and tilt their heads slightly.
Compared to women's emotional nature, men are often more rational and inquisitive. When you find your date staring intently at your lips and squinting, don't doubt it; he's investigating what's wrong with them. Is it the latest fashion trend he hasn't caught up with, or some hidden ailment he can't understand? Whether or not you kiss is no longer the focus; at this moment, he's more interested in discussing the emotional journey that led to this point.
D. Closing their eyes, unable to bear looking.
※Research has found that blocking vision is a self-protective mechanism of the brain.
If the other person closes their eyes and turns their head away, it means you've threatened their safety. Why not quietly walk away and give each other a way out? When you find the other person has completely shut their eyes, whether their face is turned left or right, this is a subconscious act of blocking their view, representing doubt, unease, or a sense of hidden threat or danger. Unfortunately, your dream of a "wall slam" is over. The above content is exclusively authorized for use and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's authorization.
