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Five common myths about marital sex that may affect your sex life.

Five common myths about marital sex that may affect your sex life.

2026-01-16 05:45:30 · · #1

There are various claims circulating online about marital sex. Are these claims true? Let's take a look.

1. Do men always hope their wives are virgins?

Ideals and practical needs are contradictory; this is a man's fantasy! A man wants to marry a virgin because he can possess a woman's precious first time. This is not only a matter of a man's "face," but also a matter of physiological desire. The tightness of a virgin is undeniable, while mature women, due to their lingering desire for sexual pleasure, gradually lose the "grip" of their private parts after repeated sexual intercourse.

Men love the bedroom skills of mature women, yet they can't bear to part with the tight "grip" of virgins. If a mature woman possesses such tight "grip," no matter what men say, most men will be drawn to her and wish they could have a passionate night together.

2. Is it true that the longer couples have intercourse, the better?

In sexual intercourse, both men and women care about the duration. If the duration is too short, the woman cannot reach orgasm, and both partners are unable to be satisfied, which is why premature ejaculation is so distressing. However, clinical evidence shows that prolonged sexual intercourse can easily cause urinary tract infections and menstrual disorders in women, while men are more prone to prostatitis.

The longer the sex lasts, the better is not true, and the harmony and satisfaction of a couple's sex life are not determined by the length of sex.

3. Are women who moan in bed promiscuous?

Moaning is a spontaneous behavior for every woman during sex, and whether it's considered lewd or not depends on the feelings of both partners. Think about it: when riding a roller coaster, if you don't scream loudly at the most exciting moment, you lose a lot of the fun. Similarly, it's hard to feel completely relaxed without murmuring or making soft noises while enjoying an orgasm!

4. Do men never fake orgasms?

Most women fake orgasms, but do men not? Not at all. Sometimes men don't want to, but they have no choice but to "fulfill their obligations" when faced with their wives' advances.

Therefore, experts suggest that when one partner is feeling unwell or has a low libido, it is best to postpone sexual activity, otherwise it will affect the relationship between husband and wife in the long run.

5. I don't want to watch pornography.

"I never watch porn." Research confirms that as many as 95% to 98% of men have watched porn, but they are not the only audience. 55% of women watch porn once a month, 40% watch it once a week, and 96% watch it with their partners.

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