Every woman hopes her husband will never change his heart and that the two can grow old together as promised in their wedding vows. However, in reality, happy endings are rare. Many women suffer psychological harm from their husbands, and in severe cases, this can even lead them to lose faith in love altogether.
Men having extramarital affairs is a common occurrence in real life. If you can discover your husband's infidelity early, you can try to save the marriage or protect yourself as soon as possible, instead of waiting for your husband to say he wants to leave. So, what are the signs of a man having an extramarital affair?
1. Suddenly showing you kindness
When it comes to the signs of a man having an extramarital affair, many people can probably learn some things from TV dramas. He suddenly becomes very nice and enthusiastic to you, as if he has done something wrong and feels guilty. He does things to make you happy as much as possible to cover up the fact that he is cheating.
This approach is simply to leave you with a glimmer of hope after you learn of his infidelity, to give you some tolerance, and to allow you to understand or forgive his behavior. The idea is that as long as he ends the affair, there won't be a divorce. This is purely selfish. Even if it maintains temporary stability in the family, the relationship has already developed cracks, making it very difficult to return to the way things were.
2. Start paying attention to dressing up
If you notice that a man has recently become very particular about his appearance, even paying attention to the style of his underwear and socks, and exhibiting significant changes in his personal hygiene, then be careful. It's very likely that these changes are made to please other women.
3. They start to find fault with all your little quirks.
There are many ways a man can show signs of infidelity, and if his behavior deviates significantly from his usual habits, you should be wary. If your partner truly loves you, he will tolerate and accept your various minor flaws. However, when he becomes intolerant, bluntly points out your shortcomings, or even starts to dislike you, it indicates that he has already found a substitute for you.
He might even compare you to other women. This is a subtle hint that he's paying attention to women other than you. Even if he hasn't cheated yet, he's already showing signs of infidelity.
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