Many people may have encountered this situation: when the sexual desire is at its peak, a phone call, a knock on the door, or even an alarm clock can interrupt what is happening. What should you do in this situation? Stop or continue?
What should I do if my sex life is forced to stop?
If the disturbance has already occurred, the first thing to do is control your emotions. Even if you are extremely annoyed, you shouldn't get angry, argue, or blame each other. If the disturbance passes quickly, you should try to adjust your emotions and start over. However, you shouldn't force it. If you really don't feel the need to, you can wait a while before trying again.
What are the dangers of interrupted sexual activity?
According to a sex therapist in the United States, approximately 72% of couples admit that their children have inadvertently witnessed them having sex. The harm caused by abruptly interrupting sexual activity goes far beyond simply being disappointing.
1. Physiological harm
Physiologically speaking, after intercourse is abruptly interrupted, the reproductive organs remain congested and cannot relax through orgasm. For men, this can negatively stimulate the erectile nerve center, initially leading to premature ejaculation. Frequent occurrences can cause dysfunction and inhibition of the brain's sexual center, potentially resulting in erectile dysfunction. For women, such interruptions can easily trigger pelvic congestion, leading to symptoms such as lower abdominal pain, backache, excessive menstrual bleeding, and dysmenorrhea.
2. Psychological harm
From a psychological perspective, interruptions during intercourse can lead to disappointment and stress. After repeated occurrences, this can even become a conditioned reflex, meaning that every time this happens, even without external interruption, interest will suddenly disappear. This can easily lead to frigidity.
How to avoid forced interruption of sexual activity?
Office workers face too many tasks every day. Without planning, not only will their rhythm be disrupted, but things may also be overlooked. The same applies to sex life; without adequate preparation, it's difficult to escape being affected. Therefore, before sex, both partners should turn off their phones, close doors and windows, and prepare sexual aids. Only with sufficient preparation can you ensure a smooth and successful experience!
