It seems that more and more married people around me are getting divorced, and I don't know when it started. Finding a partner, getting married, having children, and spending time together should be a happy thing, but in married life, couples often get into arguments over various trivial matters, which can lead to divorce.
Statistics show that 5.58 million couples got married in my country in 2017, but 1.85 million couples also separated. Furthermore, China's divorce rate has risen from 0.55‰ in 1987 to 3.2‰ in 2017, marking 15 consecutive years of increase since 2003.
Unhappy marriages often lead to divorce. However, an analysis of divorce cases in Zhejiang Province courts in 2018 revealed that the cause of divorce was not infidelity, but rather trivial matters in daily life! These seemingly insignificant matters can often trigger impulsive and irritable behavior, leading to poor decisions.
Divorce is a heavy topic, involving not only emotions but also family, interests, and other matters. If trivial matters in life have sparked your thoughts of divorce, we still advise you to "think twice before acting."
Before getting a divorce, please think about these questions.
1. Will I be okay after the divorce?
Divorce is not as simple as "leaving someone you hate." Before divorcing, consider your post-divorce life: Will I have a stable income to support myself? Will I have someone to keep me company when I'm lonely? Will raising children alone impact my life? Will I be happy after the divorce?
After a couple divorces, their economic, social, psychological, and lifestyle aspects will all change. We must weigh the pros and cons and consider it carefully!
