Yesterday, the news of "Mi Meng's divorce," a well-known relationship writer and social media influencer, topped the trending search list. Last night, Mi Meng herself admitted on her public WeChat account that she was "in talks about divorce," stating that there was no third party involved and no infidelity. Today, "Mi Meng admits to divorce" is still trending. The internet is filled with various gossip about "Mi Meng's divorce," one of the prevailing opinions being that "relationship expert Mi Meng is divorced and has become a loser."
Mi Meng's official WeChat account admitted to an impending divorce (screenshot from Mi Meng's WeChat official account).
There are as many as 440,000 search results online for "Mi Meng's divorce".
Mi Meng had previously written many articles showcasing her relationship and even published a book. Many netizens expressed that they "no longer believe in love." Some netizens also gloated on Mi Meng's Weibo and public account, saying "You finally got divorced" (comments on Mi Meng's WeChat public account have been closed before publication). However, many of Mi Meng's fans expressed their understanding and offered their comfort and blessings.
A photo of Mi Meng and her family of three (Image from the internet)
As the saying goes, "every family has its own problems." We will not speculate or comment on the reasons for Mi Meng's divorce, but we simply want to express our disdain for certain comments that say "divorced, what a failure."
Since ancient times, divorce has been regarded as a sign of "failure" for women. But is divorce really a failure? Not at all. Marriage is only a part of our long life. For a marriage that is no longer happy, it is better to separate peacefully than to force it to continue. In fact, divorce has many benefits.
1. If there are no children at the time of divorce, the woman can regain her status as a single woman and fully enjoy the pleasure of freedom.
2. After the divorce, I no longer have to do laundry and cook for men. There are no endless chores at home, and I can have free time to do things that I like and find interesting.
3. Even an upright official finds it hard to settle family disputes. After a divorce, you no longer need to be mindful of your mother-in-law's feelings, nor do you need to compromise or swallow your pride to be a good daughter-in-law.
4. You can dress up beautifully to meet other members of the opposite sex, embrace a second spring, and who knows, you might even capture a rich and handsome man and start a passionate love affair.
5. Be a career woman who is never at home, has her own business, earns a lot of money, and can travel the world freely.
We have listed a series of benefits of divorce, not to encourage everyone to divorce, but to make everyone face the truth of "divorce". Marriage is not a shackle. If marriage makes you unhappy, then why not make a choice that makes you happier?
