1. Give him ample personal time
Everyone needs time to be alone. After a long day, husbands want to relax when they get home. If you start talking non-stop about the kids or the neighbors at this time, what do you think your husband will think?
If he wants to be alone, let him be. Welcome your husband home with a smile and give him some time to himself. If he wants to talk, he'll come and talk to you.
2. Believe that he is listening.
Have you ever had a moment when you were talking and his gaze would occasionally wander? Even though it might seem like he wasn't listening to you at those times, he was actually listening most of the time.
Men and women, and indeed every individual, have different ways of speaking and listening. Don't easily accuse him of not listening. Try to understand his listening style.
3. Know his "minefields"
Even the best-loving couples will argue if they spend four, five, or six hours together, and the arguments can escalate into major fights.
Most arguments stem from trivial matters. If you know exactly what your husband dislikes, you can avoid stepping on his landmines, right?
4. Know how to support him
Have you thanked him? When was the last time you said thank you? Saying it was a year ago is definitely not acceptable!
Men feel appreciated and supported by their wives when they receive words of thanks. Saying thank you costs nothing, so thank him and praise him often!
5. Never ignore a gradual decrease in marital intimacy.
Even if the relationship between husband and wife is still good, there are many couples who have less and less sex due to the monotony of life or the fatigue of life.
Don't ignore this. Please don't blame him; instead, be filled with unprecedented passion. Occasionally, have family or friends look after your children while you and your husband go out and enjoy yourselves together. This will rekindle the passion between you.
6. Respect his dreams
Women tend to be more realistic than men. This realism becomes even more pronounced if they control the household finances. If your husband casually remarks, "When will we be able to live in a house like that?", don't dampen his enthusiasm with overly realistic comments like, "What nonsense are you talking about! How could we have so much money!"
Life wouldn't be vibrant and fulfilling without dreams and aspirations for the future. Even after marriage, sometimes when you miss your partner, share your dreams with them.
The above are some things a wife should know about her husband if she wants a fulfilling marriage. Even after marriage, neither spouse is the other's possession. Knowing what he likes and dislikes allows you, as his wife, to take the helm of your life and steer it towards a happy married life.
