The Japanese website Modelpress published an article introducing the following five tips to help you avoid insecurity and uncertainty in a relationship.
1. Try to date and go out during the day.
"When you can't see your boyfriend, try to go out during the day." "During the day, you can play indoor five-a-side football with friends or have an outdoor barbecue together, because we are more emotional and sentimental at night, but we are much better during the day, so we should try to avoid going to bars or having gatherings with friends at night."
2. When asked if she has a boyfriend, answer "yes" decisively.
"Avoid ambiguous answers when asked if you have a boyfriend." In fact, blurring the line about having a boyfriend can easily attract unwanted attention from men. Answering "I have a boyfriend" serves as a reminder to yourself.
3. Open your heart to your lover.
"Just say what's on your mind. Constantly watching his expression will put pressure on you unknowingly, making you more prone to cheating and changing your mind." However, being completely honest is also difficult. But "only when both parties are willing to speak their true feelings can a relationship last." Open your heart to your partner while maintaining basic etiquette!
4. They have a greater yearning for couples who are in "long-term love".
We often see couples who are both handsome and beautiful, and then we can't help but want to become more beautiful and find an even more handsome boyfriend. "But this will cause you to gradually overlook the good qualities of the boyfriend beside you. Therefore, more than superficial beauty, we should respect couples who cherish and love each other." No matter how glamorous they may appear on the outside, couples who cannot last are ultimately not worth aspiring to.
5. It's okay to like "handsome men on screen".
"Being a womanizer in real life is wrong, but liking handsome men on screen is okay." "Handsome men on screen refer to handsome men like Hollywood stars and TV actors; it's fine to like men you can't meet or date." This kind of womanizing doesn't need to worry about harming real-life relationships.
