Want to find a partner but can't find one? Try blind dates! Blind dates are a common way for men and women to meet in modern society. With the rapid advancement of technology, people have fewer and fewer opportunities to interact face-to-face, and the probability of strangers becoming friends or lovers is decreasing. Blind dates perfectly solve this rather cold interpersonal relationship problem, turning two parallel lines that would never intersect into one, giving men and women the opportunity to meet and fall in love.
However, while blind dates bring two strangers together in the same time and space, if a woman encounters a "weird guy" during a blind date, she might as well stay single forever. Recently on Weibo, a weird guy used a woman's Photoshop skills to "restore" her blind date's profile picture to an ugly monster; this kind of "reverse thinking" is truly speechless. So, which weird guys are not worth dating during blind dates?
If you encounter these types of "weird guys" on a blind date, never date them!
1. A boy who has a high opinion of himself from beginning to end.
During blind dates, some men have an inflated sense of self-importance. They think they're being humorous by telling internet jokes or engaging in pretentious conversations about astronomy and geography they don't understand, believing this will elevate them and win the woman's heart. However, this behavior is merely a disguised way of belittling the woman. Men with such an inflated sense of self-importance are generally arrogant and lack humility. Being with such people can be exhausting, both mentally and physically.
2. Boys with chauvinistic tendencies
The most typical manifestation of being in a relationship with a chauvinistic man is the suppression of personal freedom and space. How can you tell if a man has chauvinistic tendencies during a blind date? If he doesn't ask for the woman's opinion when ordering food and makes all sorts of bizarre demands targeting women (such as women should stay home to raise children, women shouldn't dress too revealingly, women should be a man's good helper, etc.), then the woman is best off making a 360-degree move and leaving!
3. Stingy and miserly boys
It's commendable for a man to be thrifty, but if he's overly greedy and stingy, he'll completely lose any goodwill. For example, some oddball men on blind dates use coupons on the first date and then have the woman pay for the rest; this kind of behavior seems incredibly stingy and miserly.
4. Boys who flaunt their wealth
During blind dates, many men treat women as "gold diggers" and boast about their houses and cars, thinking this will earn them respect. While love does require financial security, overemphasizing money while neglecting inner cultivation seems vulgar, and the relationship is unlikely to be romantic in the future.
5. Boys who complain all day long
If a guy keeps complaining and criticizing during a blind date, there's no need to continue the conversation. These guys spend all their time complaining about how their bosses don't care about their subordinates and how their colleagues don't cooperate, but they never reflect on whether they themselves are incompetent. They back down at the slightest problem in life and are not worthy of a woman's lifelong support.
6. "Mama's boys" who let their parents make all the decisions.
Some men are simply too dependent to be raised properly, and this can be seen during blind dates. For example, they habitually say things like "My mom said so" or "I need to ask my mom for her approval." Men like this should absolutely not be considered marriage partners. Firstly, their mothers are often very domineering, leaving the woman with absolutely no personal space after marriage. Secondly, these men are like children who haven't been weaned; how can they protect a woman or shoulder the burdens of a family?
