Japan's divorce rate has been rising recently, and the main culprit is often infidelity. Even if the person feels they are adept at handling the situation, certain small triggers can expose them. Japanese news website livedoor published an article listing three key factors that reveal infidelity.
There are three main factors that cause infidelity to be exposed: behavior, psychology, and negligence.
1. Behavioral factors
When someone is cheating, they often exhibit different behavioral patterns than usual, which are easily detected by their partner if they pay close attention. The following behaviors are particularly suspicious:
Carefully put on makeup and dress up
Suddenly started dieting
The number of times he lied about meeting new friends increased.
The phone has started using a lock function.
Delete your phone's call logs and history frequently.
There has been an increase in voicemail transfers during phone calls.
My taste in things suddenly changed.
They excitedly left home under the pretext of working overtime or going on a business trip.
2. Psychological factors
When someone cheats, their feelings become complicated, often a mixture of excitement and guilt. These feelings can easily and unconsciously manifest in changes in their words and actions, giving their partner clues to their secrets.
Her eyes looked even prettier when they sparkled.
Lack of eye contact during the conversation
Suddenly talking more or less
Became more hysterical than before
I often feel inexplicably anxious and restless.
I've suddenly become very gentle lately.
3. Negligence
The affair was exposed without warning.
The communication on your laptop or mobile phone has been detected.
Credit card spending details reveal
The thank-you note from the hotel I stayed at during my trip was seen.
Clues were found in the bus card records.
A suspicious invoice was found in the pocket.
The scent of perfume on my body when I returned from a business trip
The smell of smoke on my clothes when I came back from shopping
I accidentally brought a valuable gift home.
These behaviors may seem harmless at first, but over time everyone will eventually be exposed.
