1. Want him to change for you
There are no perfect lovers in the world, just as you have your own flaws. So why demand that your partner change according to your expectations? This only shows that you are too controlling.
2. Never apologize
In a relationship, even if you are in the wrong, you stubbornly refuse to apologize, believing that admitting it is a sign of weakness.
3. Force him to accept your point of view
You can't stand him having different opinions from you, and once that happens, you insist on persuading him to accept your point of view, otherwise you feel that your self-esteem has been "insulted".
4. You always nag your partner.
Most men hate nagging because it makes them feel forced to do something and makes them think of their mothers more easily.