According to media reports, a couple in Shenzhen who were about to get married had arranged to take wedding photos. However, the bride-to-be, born in the 1990s, dressed up as a 70-year-old woman and asked her fiancé if he would still love her at 70. She then wanted to take photos with him in old-age makeup. When her request to redo the makeup was refused, the man angrily shouted at her and stormed off in the street, leaving the woman crying in despair.
The incident sparked heated discussions among netizens, with some saying it was a publicity stunt and others saying it was because those born in the 1990s are too self-centered. Relationships require tolerance and understanding, but in love, some jokes shouldn't be made, some words shouldn't be said, and some things shouldn't be done, yet some people just like to "act up."
Distrust, constantly bringing up whether or not they love you.
Women are naturally much more sensitive about love; even the slightest disturbance can trigger their emotions. However, most men are most afraid of women constantly asking, "Do you love me?" Doing so will only drive a man crazy. How can he possibly focus on building a life together and planning for the future? If you love him, choose to trust him.
Not independent, longing for a man to be by her side
An independent woman is incredibly charming, and men are drawn to them because they know how to enjoy life and enrich themselves. A woman who isn't independent enough, who constantly nags her man, is more likely to cause conflict. Over time, this can distract the man from his work. A man who is solely focused on a woman is bound to face future troubles.
A man's loose lips can damage his reputation.
A woman who embarrasses her man in public is essentially slapping herself in the face, and also damaging his image in the eyes of others. Sometimes, what a man needs is not just a virtuous wife, but also an understanding wife who can keep secrets. A woman who frequently reveals his private matters to friends, colleagues, or family will not please a man.
Inconsiderate, always likes to make unreasonable demands
Putting immense pressure on a man will make him feel inferior; you should encourage him more than criticize him. A gentle approach is worse than criticism and questioning. Don't be stingy with your praise; frequently satisfying his vanity will make him more willing to do anything for you. Avoid being unreasonable; sometimes being too clever can backfire. A little coquetry might be more effective in making him more accommodating.
