1. Don't harbor illusions.
The most common mistake women who get entangled with married men make is harboring fantasies, believing that their connection is some kind of magic, or even that they might one day be able to replace his wife. While attraction between men and women is perfectly normal, it's best not to think of yourself as the heroine of a romantic movie.
2. Don't be easily swayed by his words.
Some men, even after marriage, enjoy developing ambiguous relationships with other women and constantly describe their marriages as "unhappy." For such men, you might want to pay close attention to whether they say the same things to other women. In reality, no matter how outstanding he may seem, he's just a married man who uses promises and sweet words to win you over.
3. Don't imagine him as the perfect man.
You may only see his gentlemanly, erudite, and witty side, but you've overlooked his true nature—especially his married status. Why risk giving him your whole heart?
4. Do not have sexual relations with him.
You think this is a genuine outpouring of emotion? Actually, it's more like a trap with endless consequences! Having a relationship with a married man will only allow him to "have his cake and eat it" of you sooner, and you are very likely to become an innocent emotional victim.
5. Ask yourself honestly
What exactly attracts you to him? Are you trying to prove something through this relationship? Or are you just looking for a fling? Your thoughts and attitudes determine your behavior.
