If you were the protagonist, how would you handle the following problems:
For example, one day, Tian received a tearful phone call from her best friend, who said that her best friend seemed to be having an affair with her boyfriend, and she didn't know whether to pretend not to see it or break up with him directly.
Someone countered, "Why did you break up with him? Perhaps the blame lies with your most trusted best friend." Your best friend retorted, "Impossible! She's my best friend! Do you know what a best friend is? A best friend is your very best friend, someone who understands you even better than you understand yourself." Then she angrily hung up the phone.
But I want to say, why is it impossible? Nothing in this world is impossible. The reason why you can become best friends is probably because you share the same hobbies, interests, habits, and tastes. So what you like, she might like too. And since she's your best friend, she naturally knows all your secrets and understands you very well. Naturally, it's not uncommon for best friends to become mistresses.
However, when problems arise, many women simply blame the men for lacking willpower, without considering the role their best friends play in the situation. This is not advisable.
Best friend, please stay at least three meters away from my man:
1. If two people are only 1 meter apart, they may lose both their love and friendship.
Many people treat their best friends as another version of themselves. They tell their best friends first when they are happy, and seek their comfort when they are sad. Naturally, they share all their joys and sorrows with their best friends during their relationship.
Imagine someone constantly nagging in your ear, and it's always the same person nagging you. Everyone gets curious; it's a universal human trait.
Perhaps at first your best friend wasn't interested in him at all, but only paid attention to your boyfriend out of curiosity. Then, after you mentioned him every day, her curiosity turned into addiction, and she felt like something was missing if she didn't hear you talk about him for a day. Gradually, she developed an interest in your boyfriend. This is what happens when you're within a meter of each other; too much intimacy is not good for either of you.
Because you and your best friend have similar tastes, and your best friend has become interested in him, when love meets friendship, the only result is that your friendship is easily broken.
Second, the two people are 2 meters apart, which tests their self-control.
Women are generally vain and always want to prove their own charm, and many of them tend to start by targeting those closest to them. Therefore, you can't be too careless with your best friends.
There are no permanent friends. Women are fickle; no one knows what they'll do next. Don't trust anyone too much, because even blood relatives can betray you at any time. Whether it's your best friend seducing your husband, or your husband falling in love with your best friend, neither is something you can handle. Within two meters of each other, love is in danger, and friendship is wavering.
Third, maintain a distance of 3 meters between each other, and everyone should get along harmoniously.
For the person you've decided to spend your life with, you absolutely shouldn't let your best friend get too close. To become best friends, you've likely gone through a lot together—perhaps cried, argued, or laughed heartily. So why not let your best friend get close to your husband?
Firstly, women are inherently weak and cannot withstand betrayal. Secondly, best friends are the culmination of long-term companionship, and it is rare to find someone you can truly connect with. Thirdly, a romantic relationship makes the journey even sweeter, and for women, finding a significant sense of belonging is paramount.
So let's maintain a platonic relationship with our best friends. We can share life's joys and sorrows, but never our emotions. There will always be someone who makes you feel most at ease, at least three meters away.
Want a friendship that won't change? Then let's shout: My dear best friend, please stay three meters away from my man.
Action: How to keep your best friend away from your man
First, when going on dates with your husband, don't always bring your girlfriends along. Some women enjoy this, thinking it's more fun with a large group of friends, and always go out for meals, drinks, and entertainment with their close girlfriends. However, if these friends have any ulterior motives, or if your husband has any romantic feelings, it could potentially escalate into a family crisis! A smart woman won't make this foolish mistake!
Secondly, don't always rely on your best friend to mediate your family conflicts. Back then, Carina Lau frequently contacted Tony Leung because she was conveying her best friend Margie Tsang's intentions and feelings. But look at the ending: the best friend eventually became his wife, while the real girlfriend faded into obscurity! It's obvious that frequent heart-to-heart talks between a man and a woman are bound to cause problems! For the sake of your family's safety, it's best to keep your best friend away from your husband!
Finally, don't constantly mention your best friend to your husband. Whether it's good or bad, a woman who frequently shares information about another woman with her husband is only deepening his curiosity about her. When a man develops a certain curiosity about a woman, it's often the prelude to trouble!
Look at the smart women around you. They know how to maintain harmony between their home and work environments. They don't always focus their conversations on their husbands, they don't constantly flaunt their happiness to their girlfriends, and they don't endlessly boast about how great their husbands are to prove they're better off than their partners. When talking about her other half, she'll smile calmly and say, "He's just an average man. He has his little flaws too."
A best friend is a woman's lifelong companion; she can share joys and sorrows, and offer advice on everything from food and drink to shelter and transportation. But you must understand that, according to the principles of a woman's heart: pain can be shared, but happiness often cannot. If a woman flaunts her happiness excessively in front of other women, it will inevitably arouse jealousy. And a woman's jealousy is a perpetual source of trouble!
Keep a close eye on your husband. Even though men have all sorts of wandering thoughts, remember this: as a wife, at the very least, don't create opportunities for him to have them! Through the analysis and action guidance above, you deeply understand the truth of the saying that distance can make everyone's life better, right? Not everyone needs to be intimately connected, and not everything needs to be shared with loved ones. Your best friend and boyfriend/husband are both close people, but how their relationship is handled depends half on how you manage it.
