In this vast sea of people, meeting someone you like is incredibly precious, and to have that person also like you is even more fortunate. How can you tell if a man who isn't good with words truly loves you? Here are 13 tips to tell the difference from everyday life! If you meet someone who genuinely loves you, cherish them!
1. When a man loves you, he will never use his phone to chat ambiguously with other women, even if it's just joking.
Let's set aside the question of whether a woman can tolerate her beloved man chatting with other women on his phone in front of her. At the very least, a man with foresight wouldn't do something so foolish as to test a woman's open-mindedness. However, when your man frequently chats with other women in front of you and confidently claims there's nothing between them, that it's just playful banter, don't easily believe his lies. Either he's a womanizer, or he's looking for emotional backup options.
2. When a man loves you, he will always mention you to his friends and even ask them to take care of you.
Unlike women, men don't keep their love a secret. They openly share the good news with their friends and even "declare their ownership." When you meet his friends, they'll always say things like, "We've heard so much about you," or "It's great to finally meet you today." Even when you talk to them about your recent time together, they'll say, "Oh, we know that, he's already mentioned it." It's obvious he's been talking about you a lot lately.
If you go out with his friends, they will pay close attention to what you say and how you feel. You might have already guessed that he has told his friends he likes you and hopes they will take care of you and make a good impression on you.
3. When a man loves you, he will always bring you a gift when he returns from a business trip or vacation, even if it is not valuable.
If a man isn't good at sweet talk, it might be because he genuinely dislikes playing games in love. However, when a man travels or goes on a business trip, he'll definitely bring you back some local specialties. This detail isn't about the gift itself, but rather whether he thinks of you as much as you think of him when you're not by his side.
4. When a man loves you, he will keep the gifts you give him within his sight, even if he doesn't like dolls.
Everyone cherishes things, and women especially do. When a woman receives flowers from someone she likes, she'll likely put them in a vase until they wither, then carefully select a few petals to tuck into a book before reluctantly throwing them away. This is because she cherishes the gift as much as she cherishes the man. Similarly, if a man carelessly throws away or loses a carefully chosen gift, it only shows that he doesn't care about you that much.
5. When a man loves you, he will remember what you said and surprise you from time to time.
Have you ever experienced this kind of romance? Something you casually mentioned one day, or something you longed for with envious eyes, and then someday, that man makes it a reality for you. It might be a cake you've been craving, a rare collector's edition CD, a dream trip for two, or even the wedding of your dreams. Not every man who loves you will remember everything you say, but a man who remembers your words and makes them a reality for you is definitely someone who loves you.
6. When a man loves you, he won't complain about doing things with you; being by your side is the greatest happiness for him.
When you dislike someone, you feel like you can't talk to each other at all. When you like someone, you feel that even arguments between two people are romantic. Therefore, when a man loves you, he will make every possible effort to be with you, because for a man, being able to look at the woman he loves, even without doing anything, is a happy thing.
7. When a man loves you, he will be overly concerned about you, asking if you brought an umbrella, if you have eaten, and if you have taken your medicine.
We're all just ordinary people. Relationships between men and women don't involve many grand, dramatic events; love is shown in the details. A man will naturally call you on a rainy day to ask if you have an umbrella—it's a conditioned reflex of love. A man who loves you will also offer the most caring concern when you're sick, and might even buy medicine for you. If a man who claims to love you can't even do these simple things, you'd better leave rationally, because dating a man who doesn't care about others will be exhausting.
8. When a man loves you, he will generously help you within his means.
During courtship, it's understandable for a man to be financially strapped. At this time, a woman can work alongside him, even covering dating expenses. However, a woman must understand that she is not a cash cow for love. At the very least, her man should be generous with money when he has it. When a man is so stingy that he's unwilling to spend money on a woman, he either lacks earning power or has never truly cared for her. Such a man, if kept around for too long, will only become a burden, too precious to discard.
9. When a man loves you, he will care about your life, instead of you taking care of him all the time.
Love is reciprocal. Even if you love a man deeply and are willing to do many things for him, when you reach a certain level of commitment, you will also start to expect something in return. If, when you reminisce, all you see are the things you did for him, and he only seemed to enjoy them, then even if this man hasn't betrayed you, you should leave him gracefully. Because he was with you not because he loved you, but because he was moved by you, and such a relationship is bound to run into problems sooner or later.
10. When a man loves you, he will schedule his work around your schedule and value your dates.
Life often presents these scenarios: After you finish work, you call him, "Honey, are you done yet?", and he always says he's not done yet and to wait for you; while you're busy with chores, he calls you, not asking what you're doing, but just urging you to meet him at a designated place in a few minutes. If these two scenarios frequently occur in your love story, please decisively give up on this man, because he only cares about his own feelings.
11. When a man loves you, he will call you after work and say some seemingly boring but actually romantic sweet nothings.
A man will naturally call you when he's not busy, perhaps just to ask about everyday things; it's a sign that he thinks of you. But for those men who don't send a single text or call all day, and who always come up with excuses when you question them, I just want to tell you, that man loves himself more.
12. When a man loves you, he will not reject your caresses of his body and will often give you a tight hug.
In life, some affectionate women may harbor secret crushes. When you intentionally try to caress a man physically, he may resist. Don't mistake this for genuine affection; rather, he's using body language to tell you, "There's no future for you two." In this situation, don't continue to obsessively love him; you'll only end up heartbroken. Even men who aren't particularly charming will express their passion with kisses and hugs instead of sweet words when they like a woman.
13. When a man loves you, he will cherish you and reciprocate with care and enthusiasm.
In the world of relationships, no one owes anyone anything; it's just a matter of who cares more. If a man loves you, and you love him too, cherish him, instead of slowly eroding his love through torment, tests, or capriciousness. Because love isn't something you realize too late; some people, once missed, may be gone forever.
