1. Incompetent people cannot support their families.
He's not a complete fool, but he's mediocre. He can't lift a hundred pounds, can't carry four ounces, and can't earn a penny. He can't support his parents, his wife, or his children; the burden of the family rests entirely on his frail wife. No wonder his wife is angry! While the old saying "marrying a man means marrying for food and clothing" isn't entirely true, how can a man not be a pillar of his family?
2. A complete idiot with no talent
Lacking talent and ability, and utterly foolish. What could such a husband possibly want besides embarrassing his wife? Being the wife of such a man is retribution for a lifetime of immoral behavior!
3. Displaying official airs at home
This is because the traditional concept of "the three cardinal guides and five constant virtues" still prevails, and the husband always puts on a superior, domineering, and high-ranking official-like demeanor in front of his wife. Whether it's his wife or family, those who comply are happy, and those who disagree are angry! With such a man, what status does the wife have? All she gets is a bellyful of resentment, anger, frustration, and sighs.
4. The couple lacks affection for each other.
This is the worst possible outcome for a couple! If a man doesn't know how to put himself in his wife's shoes and can't offer her emotional comfort, it's no wonder she'll feel cold and resentful.
5. It's hard to find a kindred spirit.
My wife and I can't seem to see eye to eye; our hearts feel like we're worlds apart. Can a married couple live without talking? How can we come up with good solutions if we can't communicate? Talking to my wife is like casting pearls before swine—it's incredibly frustrating, no wonder I feel so suffocated!
6. Lack of genuine respect for the elderly
He's not only unfilial to his in-laws, but also to his own parents, leaving his wife to worry about everything from food and clothing to daily care. While men and women are supposed to be equal, a woman is still a woman, and a man should shoulder his responsibilities! Marrying a man like this is truly the worst luck a wife can have ever had. Aren't you angry? You'll drive me crazy!
7. Never bothered with appearance
Sloppy, buttons mismatched, unkempt beard, unpolished shoes, barefoot despite wearing socks, constantly wiping his nose with his hand, and unkempt hair. Dude, who wouldn't be disgusted and angry with a husband like that?
8. Don't teach your adopted son.
He thinks that child-rearing is solely his wife's responsibility, so he spends his days lounging around smoking, wouldn't even pick up a fallen oil bottle, and completely ignores his child's personality, grades, and mental well-being. Remember: "It is the father's fault if he raises a child without teaching him!" Without a father's guidance, a child's development will be unhealthy and incomplete!
9. Few friends around
He dislikes making friends, doesn't know how to make friends, and is bad at making friends. Among those around him, he's a complete loner. Perhaps he's content with his life, but everyone should know: who doesn't need to ask for help? No matter what the problem, big or small, if he goes out to help, no one will be willing to lend a hand; only his wife can step in. Being a wife like that must be exhausting!
10. A womanizer with a strong wicked streak
A dissolute, womanizing, philandering, and lecherous husband! Does such a man deserve to be called a husband? It's only natural that his wife is angry; she should be grateful he doesn't divorce her. The above content is exclusively authorized for use only and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's permission.
