Six out of ten men have had feelings for their girlfriend's best friend. We don't date fake best friends.
The old saying goes, "Beware of fire, theft, and best friends," and there's some truth to that. We often see news reports of celebrities being deceived by their best friends, and in reality, it's not uncommon for best friends to become the third party in a relationship, making women much more wary of their best friends.
A survey once found that over 60% of Chinese men have had romantic feelings for their girlfriends' best friends. If several girlfriends bring their boyfriends out for a gathering, often two-thirds of the boyfriends will be tempted, and some may even flirt with their girlfriends' best friends. Statistics show that 10% of these relationships with the girlfriends' best friends are successful, and only 2% are rejected. This is a terrifying situation; best friends have become "third parties" who hurt women.
True best friends are people you can talk to about anything, laugh together, travel together, and even if you tease each other every day, they won't let you get bullied. They'll be there for you through the toughest times and even help you win over your crush. So why would a best friend become a third party in a relationship? Such a friend is definitely a "fake best friend." A true best friend wouldn't ruin their girlfriend's relationship; it's crucial to have a discerning eye to recognize a fake best friend.
The characteristics of a "fake best friend " are as follows:
1. First, your relationship meets most of the criteria for being best friends. For example, you get along well, go shopping together, complain together, share common likes and dislikes, and have a deep emotional bond.
2. You have an inner rivalry, which is usually only felt by the two of you. It could be related to studies or work; you'll feel the pressure to compete with each other.
3. She never acknowledges your good qualities. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Ninety percent of people only see your strengths, but to her, they are insignificant.
4. You will always be a special person to her. She won't get angry at others, but she will at you. She won't refuse to help others when they need it, but she will for you.
5. When you are sad or encounter difficulties, she will not sincerely and proactively comfort or help you.
If you truly have this kind of fake best friend, you must be wary. In front of them, be discreet and avoid excessively flaunting your relationship and happiness, as this will only provoke envy and jealousy. Dates are private time for you and your boyfriend, and no one else should intrude; don't bring your best friend along. Your boyfriend's strengths and weaknesses are no secret to your best friend, so remember to focus more on his flaws and less on his strengths to prevent her from having inappropriate thoughts. When your best friend needs help, don't let your boyfriend go alone; this will eliminate opportunities for you two to be alone.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life," Tang Jing's boyfriend, Lu Han, was stolen away by her best friend, Luo Zijun. Tang Jing made the mistakes mentioned above, causing her boyfriend to fall in love with her best friend. Fortunately, Luo Zijun was a true best friend; she consistently rejected Lu Han's advances, burying her feelings deep in her heart and giving her best friend Tang Jing the best possible outcome. However, in reality, fake best friends still exist, and women in love should be careful not to make these mistakes.
