The divorce rate in China is gradually rising, and many young people are too casual about marriage, which is not a good phenomenon. Everyone should treat marriage with more care; marriage is not a game. There are seven common psychological traits among women who have been married before. Today, we'll share these seven psychological traits of women who have been married before. Read on to learn more.
Seven psychological characteristics of remarried women:
1. Nostalgia
Nostalgia is mainly seen in remarried women whose spouses have passed away due to illness or accident. After their second marriage, they often express their longing for their former spouses. This nostalgia is precisely what husbands in remarriage don't want to see. Therefore, they hope that women can let go of their past feelings and start a new life after remarriage.
2. Comparative psychology
Remarried women often make the mistake of comparing their ex-husband's strengths to their current spouse's weaknesses, nitpicking over trivial matters. This hurts their partner's feelings, making the marriage difficult to maintain. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses; one should focus on appreciating their partner's strengths and working to overcome their weaknesses.
3. Jealousy
Many women remain jealous or overly concerned about their ex-husband's past life after remarriage, constantly reopening old wounds. This damages the ex-husband's self-esteem and, over time, inevitably affects the relationship.
4. Revenge mentality
Many women who are forced into divorce harbor resentment towards their ex-husbands after remarrying. When choosing a new partner, they insist on surpassing their ex-husbands in appearance or financial ability, in order to achieve their goal of revenge.
5. Habitual psychology
Some women develop their own interests, hobbies, and lifestyles during their first marriage, but find it very difficult to adapt to a new partner after remarriage, especially in terms of sexual harmony, which can lead to dissatisfaction on both sides.
6. Selfishness
In remarried families, each parent usually has children from previous marriages. Selfishness can easily lead to conflicts, and some parents tend to favor their own children.
7. Guarded mentality
Remarried couples often have their own property, and after remarrying, they often develop a guarded mentality, implementing economic blockades, becoming distracted, keeping secrets, and demanding independence, which can render the real family a mere shell.
After reading the above, I believe everyone has a new understanding of the seven psychological states of women in second marriages. I hope everyone cherishes married life, respects each other, and remembers that once you're married, you're family, and you have to share both the joys and sorrows. Some things can only be truly appreciated through shared experiences.
