When a man and woman meet and fall in love, marriage is a natural next step. However, many couples hesitate and become hesitant when discussing marriage, fearing the prospect of it – this is known as pre-wedding jitters. What exactly are they afraid of when they experience pre-wedding jitters?
1. Fear of discord in the relationship
It's often said that "marriage is the grave of love." If two people who enter marriage don't put in the effort, are too selfish, or constantly argue over trivial matters, they will both grow tired of each other, affecting their relationship and potentially leading to divorce. To keep their love fresh, many young men and women are hesitant to get married and have children.
2. Fear that the partner isn't true love.
Some people date because they are lonely, and dating can fill the void in their hearts. But when it comes to marriage, they may ask themselves: "Am I really going to marry her? Could there be someone more suitable for me? Am I going to spend the rest of my life with this person?" A series of questions make them lack the courage to get married immediately, leading to hesitation and avoidance of marriage.
In conclusion, marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it should not be taken lightly. Once married, couples should work together to maintain the beauty and happiness of their married life.
3. Fear of economic pressure
For adult men and women, marriage means taking on greater responsibilities. After marriage, both partners leave their previous families and need to form a completely new one. To maintain this family, they each need to work hard to earn money, paying for a house and a car. When they have a baby, the financial pressure will be even greater. With elderly parents to care for and young children to raise, the heavy financial burden can be overwhelming. Therefore, many young people feel anxious and worried before marriage, fearing the pressure they will face.
4. Fear of family disputes
Marriage is not just a matter between two people, but also between two families. If one's parents are not satisfied with their partner when meeting each other's parents, it can easily lead to family conflicts. In addition, during the wedding ceremony, the two sets of parents may argue endlessly about mundane matters such as bride price and dowry, which can affect the relationship between the two families.
