1. Lifestyle
Do you want to buy a house and settle down, or move to a different city every few years? Do you want to travel once a year, or enjoy the leisure of being on the road from time to time? Your life goals determine your respective lifestyles, and whether you can be compatible with each other is especially important in a relationship.
2. Views on Money
In divorce cases, money is often the most contentious topic. Early in a relationship, you might not think it's that important, but as time goes on, you'll increasingly realize that differing views on money can have significant consequences in the future. Are you both extravagant spenders, or do you spend money carefully and budget? Understanding this and learning to adjust these differences appropriately might help your relationship progress more smoothly.
3. Children
After marriage, should you choose to be childless or have children? When should you have children? One child or two? Opinions may differ, but the key is to communicate this beforehand. This isn't just a matter between the two of you; it also involves both families.
4. Family values
Everyone's feelings towards family are different. Does he have a strong sense of family? Such people are often more responsible and filial.
5. Views on Friendship
Does he have many friends? What are their relationships like? The kind of friends one associates with is not only a symbol of one's social standing, but also a form of self-improvement. Conversely, if he is surrounded by a lot of "bad influences," then you shouldn't have too high expectations of his character.
