1. Lack of self-confidence
If you lack self-appreciation, it's even harder for a man to see your strengths. Once you learn to love yourself, you'll find it easier to accept love from others. One of the reasons preventing you from finding a boyfriend is actually your own mindset. Be confident! Remember that you deserve happiness.
2. Hide yourself
How can you meet your soulmate if you never leave your room? You need to go out, even though that sounds scary. Don't hide in your room, and don't keep your lips sealed. You need to communicate in order to connect with others.
3. Overly high expectations
You deserve to be surprised, but don't get too excited. Don't compare the men you meet to celebrities; it's unfair, because you wouldn't want men comparing you to supermodels, right? You can have your own set of standards for choosing men, but don't be afraid that the other person won't meet your expectations.
4. Refusal to trust
No one likes being called a "liar." If you can't trust a man, remember that everyone is different. Even if your ex hurt you in the past, you shouldn't approach the next man with a guarded heart. You can protect your heart, but in moderation.
5. Flirting with friends
If a man likes you, he won't be happy to see you flirting with his friends. He wants to know if you like him and that he's the only one in your heart—you're not the only one worried about being cheated on. Men don't want to waste their energy on their girlfriends' infidelity.
6. Sudden changes in temperature
If you're friendly to a man today but completely ignore him tomorrow, he'll be confused. Some men don't like playing games. They need to be told how you feel directly because they don't know it themselves. If they don't understand your behavior, they're very likely to eventually give up on you and go find another girl.
7. Lack of an open mind
You don't have to confide your deepest secrets to a stranger, but you also can't hide everything or remain indifferent. If he tells you about his childhood, he'll wonder why you're always silent. He might initially be attracted to your mystery, but communication is crucial in relationships. How can your relationship develop if you don't communicate? Don't you want him to fall in love with the real you?
