1. Learn to express gratitude
Don't think that you can relax after entering marriage. Entering marriage only means that you have a longer and more difficult road ahead in life. After marriage, will you still express your gratitude to your husband for the big and small things he does for you? Don't take it for granted! Men really like to receive emotional feedback from the women they love after they have given.
2. Treat his family as you would your own.
In China, mother-in-law/daughter-in-law issues are a stumbling block in almost every marriage. But are there really so many domineering and unreasonable mothers-in-law in the world? Such mothers-in-law certainly exist, but a wife who doesn't reflect on her own actions and always blames others cannot be considered a wise woman. First, learn to treat his family as you would your own. Your husband also wants to see a reasonable and understanding wife.
3. Possess an independent social circle
After marriage, would you drag your husband to your girlfriends' gatherings, especially if one of them showed up alone? If you don't want to lose a friendship, I advise you to wake up sooner rather than later! You don't have to share your social circle. A one-on-one gathering with your best friend can not only make your conversations more open and interesting, but also give you a chance to temporarily step out of your role as a wife and enjoy a relaxing and pure afternoon.
4. Arguing about the issue at hand.
Many women have a tendency to bring up past grievances. This is especially evident in arguments with their partners. Arguments and conflicts are perfectly normal in a marriage, but it's important to address them objectively and not let old grievances or pent-up resentment become the trigger for a fight.
5. Give him enough face in front of outsiders.
When you excitedly tell your husband embarrassing stories in front of him or your friends, have you noticed his awkward expression? This kind of harm is often invisible, but its destructive power is extremely great.
6. Control your emotions.
No man likes a woman who is good at nitpicking, nagging, and prone to triggering negative emotions. When you want to vent your dissatisfaction on him over trivial matters, please control your emotions first and express your views in a gentler way.
7. Create surprises
No one dislikes surprises, and in marriage, surprises are another expression of romance. After all, for most people, life can be monotonous; it's time to create some fun with surprises!
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