Men should not touch these "places" on women.

How men and women get along

Confucius said, "Only women and petty men are difficult to deal with." In fact, Confucius was wrong. Women are not as difficult to deal with as people imagine. As long as you don't touch a woman's fatal flaws, most women will not turn from sheep into tigers. Take dating for example. If a man is dating a woman, he is generally safe as long as he doesn't touch the following fatal flaws. If he does touch them, it's like stepping on a landmine.

Fatal Flaw #1: Absolute Obedience

Women all like considerate men, that's true, but consideration has its place. A woman will appreciate your consideration in daily life, but if you wait for her to give orders in public before you can act, the situation might not be so pleasant. Because not all women expect their husbands to be henpecked.

When dealing with women, a man should be both gentle and assertive, employing a combination of both. Obedience is never a good thing. If you insist on being a spineless man, the day you're divorced will soon arrive.

Fatal Flaw Two: Poor Skill

There is one thing in which women are absolutely "allowed to do as they please, but not as allowed to do as they please": when it comes to economic matters, women can be very calculating, but they cannot tolerate men being even slightly calculating.

Therefore, if you lack sufficient wisdom and exceptional coping skills, then when shopping with your girlfriend, you must be prepared to spend money when necessary, and be willing to bleed when necessary. Think about it: you can keep your wife by being willing to spend money. Don't show your stinginess at crucial moments and embarrass your girlfriend. Because missing out on a good meal is a small matter, but losing face is a big deal.

Fatal Flaw Three: Trying to Pretend to Be Rich When You're Not.

It's undeniable that being a man is difficult. We just said a man shouldn't be stingy, but now we're also asking him not to pretend to be capable. Isn't that just making men look bad?

The reason men shouldn't try to impress women is that when you give a woman hope but then fail to deliver or make a complete mess of things, leaving her extremely disappointed, you'll find that the loss to gain her forgiveness is greater than the loss of doing nothing.

So, if a man doesn't have the skills, he shouldn't take on a task he's not qualified for. He should be honest and tell the truth: "Honey, I can't." Perhaps because the woman sees that you are honest, she will not only forgive you but also think that you are a very honest person, thus maintaining a good impression of you.

Fatal Flaw Four: Making fun of someone's body

You could say only a fool would do something like that. Don't assume that just because a woman is your girlfriend, you can say anything you want. Never bring up someone's weight. If you really have nothing to say, even if you're just rambling on about the weather or Korean dramas, don't mention her weight. Otherwise, you'll definitely regret it.

Because a woman is extremely sensitive about her weight. Whether she's fat or thin, weight is her most sensitive topic. If a man dares to risk touching this sensitive area, the woman will usually find a reason to make him feel awkward and uncomfortable. Even more surprisingly, even if a man's comments about a woman's figure have nothing to do with his girlfriend, she will feel that he is alluding to her, and secretly feel hurt and resentful.

Fatal Flaw Five: Too Direct

When speaking to women, leave some room for interpretation. Even with witty remarks, leave some room for nuance, allowing her to interpret them herself. For example, with jokes, if a man is too blunt, a woman usually won't respond well. But if you leave some room, she can be coquettish or sharp-tongued, giving her more room to maneuver. The same applies to other things; don't say everything for a woman. Leave her some room to think. This way, you can maintain harmony and avoid situations where "every word is superfluous."

Female Psychology: 9 Types of Male Personality That Women Cannot Tolerate

Most women probably secretly wish they could date a handsome guy. However, there are situations where even a very handsome man is excluded from the dating pool. Why? Because they have "flaws" that are unbearable. The Japanese website sugoren surveyed 234 single women aged 10-29 about "9 personality traits that make even handsome men unbearable." Let's take a look.

1. Making baseless boasts

Women aged 20-29 say, "Being a big mouth is completely unacceptable, but it seems like a lot of handsome men are big mouths." Men with good looks often feel incomprehensibly capable in other areas, making promises they can't keep. Those men who make boastful claims should think twice before making promises they can't keep if they don't want to be mercilessly condemned as "only good-looking."

2. Lack of hygiene; upon closer inspection, the shoulders are covered in dandruff.

For women aged 20-29, the primary criterion for judging a boyfriend is "his character as a person." If he's not clean, no matter how handsome he is, it won't work. Phrases like "I don't like to shower" or "I can't wash my clothes" reveal that you're not clean. It's not enough to just admit that you're not clean; you also need to work on improving it.

3. Lying in order to be liked by women.

"Being popular gives one a sense of existence, and one should always want to be popular with the opposite sex." However, making irresponsible flattering remarks that target women's preferences will only lead to alienation from all women and being seen as a "mentally shallow man." Men who have engaged in such behavior should pay attention to their words and actions.

4. Both are negative responses to other people's words.

"No matter how handsome he is, being with him will make me feel tired"—excessive negative thinking in men can diminish their charm. If it's meant to be self-deprecating, it's best to check if anyone around you is laughing.

5. Looking down on women and adopting an attitude that "women should naturally serve men".

Looking down on women is a "common problem among handsome men." Men who are constantly flattered because of their looks naturally assume that "women are born to serve men." Handsome looks fade with age, so if handsome men want to build relationships based on genuine understanding, why not change their attitude and show more respect for women?

6. Live life "in accordance with nature" and look down on hard work.

The women surveyed overwhelmingly stated that they "don't want to date someone who has no future plans." If he prioritizes immediate pleasure and avoids hard work, they wouldn't even consider dating him. Hedonism isn't something that can be changed overnight; those with self-awareness should start working diligently from now on.

7. Having an immoral private life and engaging in extramarital affairs without any regard for consequences.

"Don't think that just because someone is handsome, they can be forgiven." Being unfaithful can shake the foundation of a relationship. Although it's precisely because someone is handsome that they attract all sorts of temptations, just thinking about "being betrayed one day..." will make you realize that cheating is no big deal.

8. Lack of independence and inability to make decisions independently.

Mature women will stay away from men who lack a sense of self. Men who are "only popular with young women" should not assume that "only older women don't consider them as romantic partners."

9. Lacks male self-esteem; women always pay for meals.

If a handsome man doesn't exhibit the typical masculine behaviors, women will find him "too embarrassing," as "male attractiveness isn't just about looks." To be popular with the opposite sex, one needs not only confidence in their appearance but also "charm beyond physical appearance."

Even handsome men can't erase their flaws. If you want to attract the opposite sex, start by re-examining your behavior and working on improving your shortcomings.

Unspoken rules of dating

Men's attitudes towards relationships and interactions differ greatly from women's, yet they often assume these are unspoken rules. Let's take a look at these unspoken rules of dating that women often circulate behind their backs—understanding them will give you a competitive edge in the battlefield of love!

1. There's a type of man who loves you but plays silent with you, and who doesn't love you but won't even give you silence.

Some men are just so unpredictable when it comes to love. They won't shower you with romantic declarations all the time; instead, they'll remain silent, leaving you completely baffled. There are two reasons why men are silent in love: one is that they're naturally like that, not good with words and prefer to express their love through actions; the other is that their words suddenly fail them in front of their loved ones, making them unable to express themselves, turning a witty and humorous young man into a block of wood.

Don't doubt him at this time; your suspicion might make him insecure. If you rely solely on giving to provide security, you'll only become increasingly passive in the relationship. As you spend more time together, he'll gradually get used to your presence and his true nature will slowly emerge.

A man who doesn't love you won't even give you silence; he'll simply and decisively reject you. Actually, this is a good thing for you. Seeing reality sooner rather than later prevents your efforts from being wasted, and freeing you from confusion—isn't that something to be thankful for?

2. Go and negotiate with him? Being in love doesn't necessarily mean being in sync, and talking might not lead to a clear resolution.

In the classic novel "Gone with the Wind," Scarlett O'Hara and Rhett Butler clearly love each other and understand each other's feelings, but due to their proud personalities, neither of them is willing to back down first. As a result, every argument ends badly, and in the end, the two stage a tragic farewell scene that leaves people sighing with regret.

While lamenting the irony of fate, we must also understand that sometimes, truly open and honest communication with men can be quite challenging. When men and women communicate using languages ​​from two different planets, do you think the outcome will be mutually beneficial?

Respect, comfort, understanding, tolerance... these things, like silently leaning on someone's chest when there's a disagreement, are much more effective at resolving a stalemate than verbal battles!

3. While cuteness and coquetry are instinctive focuses, a kind and strong heart remains the eternal standard for choosing a wife.

Men's first impression of a woman is always based on her appearance, and they tend to focus on this for a long time. They like cute, pretty, sexy, and charming women... But don't think they're really that superficial. When it comes to marriage, they don't just focus on these superficial aspects, but place more emphasis on a woman's good traditions and morals.

A truly mature man, when choosing a wife, never wants to marry a delicate woman who needs to be cared for and pampered. He wants a wife, not a daughter. What a man wants is a wife who can weather storms with him, who is strong, confident, and has a zest for life. So, deep down, they know what they're looking for.

In conclusion: After reading the above article, do you understand how couples can get along harmoniously? There are no barriers between male and female thinking; the key is timely and effective communication. Even when busy with work, it's important to show care and concern for each other. This way, there will be no gaps between you, and your relationship can last longer!