Relationships between men and women are inherently complex, and knowing what men avoid can save you a lot of trouble. Men hate these behaviors in women the most; these eight taboos are things you absolutely must avoid, or the consequences will be severe!
1. Pretending to know what you don't and interrupting a man's conversation.
“When several men were talking about something, she pretended to know what she was talking about and insisted on getting involved and giving orders.”
Don't assume you're popular and successful just because men don't point it out to your face. Don't presumptuously interrupt men, thinking you're so great. Remember, men don't point it out to be gentlemanly and don't want to embarrass a woman. If you were to actually point it out, men would likely respond with insults, and you'd be in trouble then.
2. Disregarding one's image in public.
"In front of everyone, she openly picked her teeth and nose. I always thought women wouldn't do such things, but reality keeps drastically overturning my opinion. I saw it the day before yesterday, I saw it again yesterday, I saw it again today, and I'm sure I'll see it again tomorrow. How can this be? I suggest that women with this habit should look in the mirror next time they're doing this."
A woman's image is very important. You can do whatever you want at home, but when you're out in public, you should also consider how others feel! Never behave inappropriately in public! It's one thing if others think it's indecent, but if you meet a man you like, you might miss out on a relationship and regret it for the rest of your life!
3. Using inferior perfume
"Every part of my body reeked of cheap perfume. Once, I was in a car and was sandwiched between two fat women. Being attacked from both sides made me feel terribly uncomfortable. That wasn't all; the pungent smell of their cheap perfume made me want to vomit but I dared not, and I wanted to inhale but I dared not. I felt so suffocated that I wanted to die. I never dared to ride in that car again."
A captivating perfume, like a charming and fragrant flower, can attract butterflies; while a cheap perfume might attract bees! Women who want to enhance their allure should avoid spraying themselves with inferior perfume. Otherwise, not only will it repel men, but it might also cost you a good relationship!
4. Makeup that is too white
"If you don't apply makeup to your face, you're fine, but if you do, you either end up looking like Zhou Xun in the movie 'Painted Skin' or like a Transformer."
Women dress up for those they love, and a little makeup is fine; looking good shows respect. However, if you make yourself unrecognizable, you might get mistaken for an alien and chased down the street. If you really want to wear makeup, go to Japan.
5. The self-righteous "strong woman"
"She's self-righteous and always acts like she's the best in the world, unmatched by anyone. Unfortunately, I always encounter women with this kind of behavior. She loves to show off, claiming she can do this and that without a problem. But after testing, it turns out she can't do any of it. And that's not all; she throws a tantrum and goes berserk. If you can do something, you can do it; if you can't, you can't. Isn't it exhausting to pretend to be so great?"
Some women just love to show off, genuinely believing they're superwomen. Sometimes, they need to know their own limitations and not try to steal the spotlight only to embarrass themselves! Remember, men care about their image, so never try to outshine them; they'll find that extremely distasteful.
6. Stingy and petty
"She's stingy and petty. She's always afraid of being taken advantage of if someone spends even a little bit of her things."
Men often get scolded by women for being even slightly stingy. However, this doesn't mean women can be petty and take it for granted. Men are human, and women are human; we are all social beings. Those of us who live in society should at least maintain a certain level of professionalism. Always wanting to take without wanting to give, and fearing a huge loss for even the smallest contribution—that won't do.
7. Talking about other people's private matters behind their backs
She doesn't dare to say it to people's faces, but behind their backs she gossips about their ancestors for eighteen generations, and even knows everything about their boyfriends' backgrounds.
Throughout history, many women have had this inclination. Even those with the highest moral character often find themselves unknowingly falling into it. Perhaps this is simply a woman's tradition, something that can't be changed overnight. But while it's a woman's problem to change it, men find this behavior utterly repulsive, even abhorrent.
8. Lack of self-respect
"She has no self-respect and dresses herself up like a socialite all day long, acting coquettishly whenever she sees a man."
Women who exhibit this behavior are not common, but they are not few either. Some women won't miss an opportunity to act coquettishly in the office, shamelessly flaunting their charm, truly believing themselves to be alluring. Don't assume that a man's smiling face means he likes you; in reality, he might be harboring intense desires.
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