No one is perfect. As long as his flaws don't cross your emotional boundaries, we can try to accept them. If you want to change partners because of this, you'll encounter other flaws you can't tolerate. For example, someone who can't swim won't learn even if they change swimming pools. Forget about expecting a man to drastically change after marriage; instead, try to accept him, including his flaws that you find objectionable. Women set various conditions before marriage simply to find the right person. You might complain that you can never find the right one. Today, I'll guide you through solving this problem; perhaps you'll gain something from reading this article.
A partner's character and personality are the most important.
He may have a car and a house, buy you designer bags, and take you around the world, but that's not the most important thing. He's the one you're meant to spend the rest of your life with. If his character is flawed, or your personalities clash, these issues will all surface when the passion in your marriage fades. By then, it will be too late. It's better to understand beforehand that a man's wealth isn't the final product; the man who best suits your personality and has good character is the one worth marrying.
A woman's abilities and appearance can greatly enhance your appeal.
Marriage isn't a long-term meal ticket, and you need to understand that none of us can predict the future. The only thing you can do is strengthen yourself, improve your professional skills, and use a face mask to make your skin more hydrated. Don't assume that men only love women with inner beauty. As Little S said, "No matter how beautiful a fat woman's heart is, she's still a fat woman." When you refine yourself, your charm will radiate from within, and he will naturally be attracted to you.
Looking at him through the lens of his family
Your partner's family's lifestyle will serve as a template for your future married life. Believe it or not, parents' words and actions have an invisible influence on their children. Find a man from a normal family background; growing up in a loving family will make your life with him warm and comforting.
Don't fantasize that men will change after marriage.
No one is perfect. As long as his flaws don't cross your emotional boundaries, we can try to accept them. If you want to change partners because of this, you'll likely encounter other flaws you can't tolerate. For example, someone who can't swim won't learn even if they change swimming pools. Forget about expecting a man to drastically change after marriage; instead, try to accept him, including his flaws that you find repulsive. The above content is exclusively authorized for use and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's permission.
