Some say, "The most sincere, purest, and most heartbreaking emotion in the world is unrequited love." Silently admiring someone, yet unable to express it for various reasons, is a feeling that's likely unforgettable for a lifetime. The American "Evidence-Based Medicine" website has summarized several signs that someone is secretly in love with you, helping you recognize true feelings and not miss out on true love.
He'll do something unexpected yet thoughtful for you. Something you casually mention in a conversation, he'll quietly buy for you. This extra effort is very "sweet," but don't mistake it for "friendship."
He remembers to inquire about the health of your family and friends when they are sick. He remembers to visit or check on your parents or other family members when they are ill. These details show that your well-being, whether good or bad, is very important to him.
He'll defend you without hesitation. When you're in trouble, he'll defend you and lend a helping hand without hesitation. But the problem is, this could easily expose his secret crush on you. If he's an old friend, it might not matter. But if he's a new friend, it might cause gossip, and he might not want others to know his feelings for you yet.
He'll spend more time discussing things with you. When discussing a particular topic, he might continue talking to you even after everyone else has left, because someone who has a crush on you might treat your interests as their own. Asking more questions and exploring deeper topics indicates he wants to know more about you. How quickly these conversations pass depends on whether you also have feelings for him.
He's very accommodating towards you. When you make plans together, if you're friends, he'll be very accommodating towards you. This likely indicates that he's willing to spend time with you whenever you're available.
When you want to contact him, he might not reply immediately. If you haven't been in contact for a while, and his reaction is stronger when you meet again, it might indicate that your relationship is far more than just friendship. Someone who secretly likes you might constantly seek opportunities to meet you, or they might try to avoid you as much as possible. Because of their anxiety or nervousness, they might not reply to your messages immediately, perhaps because they are going through a lot of internal struggle. Therefore, when you find someone who is somewhat enigmatic yet deeply cares about you, you should consider which direction your relationship should take. ▲The above content is exclusively authorized for use only and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's authorization.
