What exactly is marriage? Marriage is the union of two individuals, a union intended for a better life. Marriage is also selfish; a person will give you everything they cherish. What is marriage...? Read on.
What is marriage? Marriage is a university. This university is not just for two people, but for three families. You are a classmate in this university. You need to study hard and learn from each other. You can't just switch classes at will.
Marriage is like a meal, with all sorts of dishes, both meat and vegetables. Some people prefer staple foods, others prefer meat; preferences differ, so the dishes vary as well. We need to adjust the meal according to everyone's tastes. A happy marriage doesn't end halfway through; it stays with those at the table until they grow old.
A happy marriage is one where, even after decades together, you can still find freshness in each other, feel like you're in your first love, have someone waiting for you when you come home, eat together, watch TV shows together, and enjoy the little things in life.
A happy marriage is having someone to talk nonsense with, someone to keep you company when you're bored, someone to give you encouragement when you're busy, someone who is a safe harbor to rely on, and someone who eliminates all your anxieties.
Marriage is not about turning yourself into your partner and completely losing yourself. It's about having your own thoughts, your own joys in life, and growing together as better versions of yourself.
Marriage is not something you deliberately pursue. You don't need to be wary of him. You can be yourself in front of him. In marriage, you are equals, communicating, conversing, and enjoying everything equally.
A good marriage cannot be built by one person alone; it requires the joint efforts of both partners. They must stay together through difficult times and enjoy happiness together. Life itself is ordinary, but a happy marriage makes it extraordinary. It begins with you and ends with you.
May everyone find the right person, have a happy marriage, play with each other, and live a simple and happy life without too much complexity, only simple joy.