We often hear people say that marriage is the grave of love. After entering marriage, many couples become anxious and uneasy about the trivialities of married life. Because they do not know how to handle emotional problems between husband and wife, they cause disharmony in their marriage and eventually have to end their marriage and divorce. So, what is the relationship between love and marriage?
It can be said that love and marriage are inseparable. Love is the prerequisite for marriage, while marriage is the destination of love. A marriage without love has no future, and love without marriage has no guarantee. Every couple must have a foundation of love before entering into marriage. Without love as a foundation, marriage may not even begin, and even if it does, it may not have a perfect outcome. Therefore, in today's society where love and marriage are free, everyone should choose a suitable partner and go through the complete process of meeting, getting to know each other, and then falling in love before entering the hall of marriage. Only then can marriage be lasting and stable.
Love and marriage are complementary. Every married couple needs to dedicate their lives to nurturing their marriage. Mutual understanding, compromise, adaptation to each other's habits, acceptance of all shortcomings, and tolerance, understanding, and trust are the secrets to a stable marriage. However, love differs from marriage. When in love, we often only see the surface-level advantages and beauty, hiding many flaws and habits that differ from our own. Therefore, it's crucial to maintain a clear head during courtship and examine your partner from an objective perspective. This is an attitude of responsibility towards your own and their future. Avoid entering marriage blindly due to optimism, only to regret it later.
The relationship between love and marriage is like that of a family living in the same house every day. Many couples maintain the same state of being in love after marriage. This is because they have perfectly integrated the sweetness and sharing of love into their marriage, carefully managing their feelings for each other, and being tolerant and trusting of one another. Such a marriage can be said to be a preservative for love.
